Laura Lifshitz of Huffington Post gives some tips on how to handle your Ex’s new partner especially when you both parted on bad terms:
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It’s not a race. I haven’t met anyone yet, but it’s not a race. I will meet someone when I am ready. And let’s face it: I could go on dates all the time if I just settled. So could all of us. But I am saving myself for people who will add to my life and not drain me. I don’t need to be completed. I am complete on my own. I need to be complemented and so do all of you!
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Don’t Borrow Trouble Where There is None: You may be fearing the worst about your ex’s new partner but the fact is you’re only creating problems where there are none. If a problem comes up, deal with it. Until then, give this person the benefit of the doubt. Remember: you may end up being in this person’s shoes! You could be the new boyfriend or girlfriend to a person who’s divorced!
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You Don’t Know How Happy Your Ex Is: Your ex could be all s__ts and giggles, but behind closed doors his or her new relationship can be doomed from the start. And even if he or she is totally happy, this doesn’t mean that you will never be happy with someone again.
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Some People MUST Have Someone: Some people cannot be single. I have friends or have had friends in the past who must have a boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn’t mean they’re having good relationships. In fact typically, they were rushing into bad situations. There is a difference between being alone and lonely. They’re not one in the same.
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