Man Holding Bite of Desert for Girlfriend (Huffpost/Facebook)
While there’s nothing wrong in showing interest in the man you like, it is traditional that the man makes the first move such as asking a girl out on a first date or even in proposing marriage.
For most of us, this is the way a wonderful relationship works out because we are comfortable with this setting. So how do you get a man to chase you without making it obvious?
Alicia Fanning of All Women Stalk lists a few ways ladies can achieve that feat:
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Stop it: These tactics can be used at any point in a relationship, from the very beginnings to well into a marriage. If you want to change up the status quo and find ways to get him to chase you instead of you chasing him, it is totally doable. All you need to do is stop. Stop chasing him. There may a bit of a standstill before the tide turns but if he cares about you, rest assured that it will turn.
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Pull back: Sometimes you not only need to stop what you are doing in chasing him but you need to give him some distance and space to work with. Be patient and see what happens. It can actually be quite exciting to see what he will do when you pull back. Pulling back means that you allow him to miss you and that you don’t make it your responsibility to take control for every interaction and communication. You may just be pleasantly surprised.
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Flirt: This is a very fun way to get him to chase you. Flirting is a great way to get his attention and make him want to pursue you. There are a thousand ways to do this, at least. You can tease him but make him do the work here. Most guys like the chase element of a relationship and tend to be much more interested when they are allowed to do that.
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